Make sure that you know everything about him. Don’t let him pull the wool over your eyes.
I stated on My New Adventures A LONG time ago that I was taking it slow in my engagement. We did end up getting married because I loved the persona he put in front of me. I thought he was a good Dad, a good man, everything. I wish that single women could interview the ex-wife before we start dating these men. I know most divorced women are going to have TERRIBLE feelings about their exes. Of course, I think I would want to interview friends of the ex too because in my case, I think the whole family might be off. I just wish future wives knew what we were getting into. Be paranoid, it could pay off in the end.
I talked about being more confident these days in my last post and I am. I just don’t know that I would have made the same choices if I had known the honest to goodness truth about the man. Heck, I should have done a people search on his whole family.
So, if you are ever in my spot and think you have fallen in love. Dig up everything you can about the man~